Twice, Actually
A Footnote To This Morning
"I know, I know." It's so so crazy.
Toluwani Oladokun is writing to us twice!?
That's a lot. I'm also shocked.
I had this thought 5pm yesterday and penned down the title. Just scraps of an idea, not a full picture.
Writing this out exactly 4:00am, 25-04-2026. You'll get it in the afternoon most likely.
This morning I wrote about tolerance, discomfort and see finish. No context in particular.
You've been in spaces where you were liked just fine and still felt slightly outside of something. Present, functional, even laughing. Just not quite landing anywhere.
That's not a you problem.
Some fits are just wrong. The wrong fit will always produce discomfort you end up explaining to yourself, tolerance you end up calling maturity, familiarity that never quite becomes ease.
The right people don't fix that. They just make it irrelevant.
You'll find your own people.

